Inventing Snow

A few years ago I had the pleasure of working at a little joint called Enery Water Gardens. It was a charming place with greenhouses brimming full of exotic plants I’d never seen before, animals who looked after us just as we did them, shady cottonwood trees that allowed us to hear the wind, and a sense of community that welcomed everyone to show up just as they were. No matter the mood you were in or the circumstances of your life, there was always room and acceptance to simply be. A lot happened in my life during the brief year I was there – including the death of my grandmother – and since then it has proven to be a backdrop to one of the most developmental times in my life. Along with the art (and heart) of nurturing, this poem is just a glance of what Enery taught me.

The gentleness of water
holds many things:

the sway of a reed
the eroticism of a canna
the fleeting significance of a lotus blossom;

the submerged flight of frogs through mid-pond
the clumsiness of a duckling’s first plunge
the invisibility of the world’s smallest flower.

I learned why slimy things are beautiful
how death can be nurturing
and that even demons need a peaceful place
where they can safely sit
and listen
and stare
into depths beyond a water’s edge.

It was where all of life
with its evils
and wonders
and softness
became organic -

Pure and simple.

© Mayme Snow

A Quick List:

ambition
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seriousness
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facebook
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gated communities
uniqueness
shame
hesitance
fate
impatience
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The following is from an exercise during a writing workshop when all of the participants were given a few minutes to write about their experiences at a recent conference hosted by The Sun Magazine, using the prompt “What happened was”:

What happened was my car had died because my cell phone is a battery whore. What happened was I was forced to abandon my natural – and sometimes exaggerated – country woman modesty and approach complete strangers to see if they had any jumper cables. What happened was I had no choice but to introduce what a dumbass I was and, through such a first impression, squandered any chance of sounding accomplished or together. What happened was right off the bat, I had to make room for grace and laugh at my fleeting embarrassment every time I swarmed someone as they pulled in, already pestering them with a need before exchanging names. What happened was I remembered how disarming humility can be when approaching another person. What happened was I learned over the course of the next few hours that Yankees do not carry jumper cables in their trunks and that maybe I – in my own lack thereof – was a step closer to becoming one myself.

Then, what happened was I found my tribe. Many of the folks I had approached in the parking lot began to mold into unfamiliar friends. Wasting no time hitting the wine before anything officially started, we sat around and let the alcohol soften us like ice cubes in sun-brewed tea. Commonalities, curiosities, and awkward transitions slowly flowed over the room like a waxing tide until the entire building was flooded with the chatter of introductions and reunions, all excited in anticipation for the writing ahead. Only an hour for hors d’oeuvres yet by dinner I already knew where my place at the table would be. By the end of the first night I would relish in a sense of community that had been absent for years now. It became beautifully apparent that the deviations in our backgrounds would not diminish the fact that we were all kindred spirits who had been drawn to these mystical woods in search of the voice belonging to our own truth.  Read the rest of this entry »

The Snail
is my guru
for meditative walking;

with a crunch
it (helplessly) reminds me
of the weight

one mindless step
can force another
to bear.

It took me three years to finally catch one of these trees in bloom and what a treat that the blossoms were so accessible!  Tulip Trees (Liriodendron tulipifera) are very tall and often the flowers are too high to see from the ground, but this lass is a hybrid between the native Northeastern species and the Chinese cultivar.  It sits near the Hunnewell Building at the Arnold Arboretum in Boston.

Over the past few hours, Boston has been on a broken roller-coaster.  What was a terrorist bombing Monday became yesterday’s stories of loss, condition, and compassion.  Yet this afternoon reminded us here that despite the world’s sentimentalism and exhaustion, the ride is still going bat-shit crazy and we’re all still aboard.  The headlines and stories were dropping one after another: suspect in custody; poisoned letter sent to White House; bomb threat; courthouse evacuation; abandoned car; hospital evacuation; suspect not in custody; fire on subway tracks; suspicious package tossed onto the Red Line.  The threat hasn’t stopped.  The media is waving speculation as though taunting starving dogs with a bone; if they calmed the fuck down that would be their greatest contribution right now.  Read the rest of this entry »

Ways a country bumpkin can find solace in the big city:

Keep a kite on you at all times (backpack, trunk, etc.).  You never know where you’ll be when the wind picks up.

Introduce yourself to the trees in your neighborhood and visit them regularly.

Move at your own pace (mine is molasses).  Let the rush and chaos of urban dwellers flow around you like a stream does a heavy rock. The more weighted down you are with your own intention and movement, the less you will get tossed around.

Be prepared to be the last one eating if joining some locals, and don’t take it personally if you are abandoned at the table to finish on your own.  It’s common here for people to move on quickly before allowing their food to settle.

If you can, get a pet so you have a companion.

Look people in the eyes.  It helps curb the feeling of being invisible.  Read the rest of this entry »